I went to counseling for the first time in my life. Was suggested by my lawyer.

So here I am talking with my counselor about me, my husband, our marriage, our daughter, his affair, our relationship and everthing. I saw her once a week, and so far have gone there for two times. Its a good session anyway. Last week she ask me how much I love my husband? Is there still any feeling for him? I told her, at this point of time, am not sure I still have feeling to him. But, I can't imagine myself holding or touch him. She ask me to gave my feeling to my husband in percentage, if there still any. I gave 20%, but its going down. Our good or romantic time together has faded away in my memory. Even as I typing this down, there only 10% left?

Then, she ask me, in percentage again, how much would I gave for desire of D him? I told her around 60 - 70 percent. Then she ask me to imagine myself in D situation. What would be different? or any positive side? She ask me to take my time and think about it. She told me that, maybe I am not ready to get D. But if that the case, how long willing to give. She ask me to gave myself timeframe before I should call it a quit. I still hasn't think about it seriously till now.